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A Little Daily Inspiration: Women’s Health Empowerment Worldwide

In Uncategorized on October 18, 2011 at 8:07 am

Women's Health and Empowerment Worldwide

WHEW! I’ve said this many times before, but it hasn’t held the same meaning since Women’s Health Empowerment Worldwide was formed in 2010.  The non-profit organization was co-founded by Sarah Scott (A good friend of mine!) and Ashley Gardiner in partnership with The Fistula Foundation’s Circle of Friends program. WHEW’s primary goals are to promote women’s health worldwide and address the growing need for obstetric care in developing countries, specifically in relation to fistula’s. Pardon my ignorance, but I actually wasn’t aware of what a fistula was until Sarah educated me a year ago. So, just in case you’re wondering:

C/O The Fistula Foundation and WHEW

 

Fistula: A fistula is a hole. An obstetric fistula, the kind that occurs in many developing countries, is a hole between a woman’s birth passage and one or more of her internal organs. This hole develops over many days of obstructed labor, when the pressure of the baby’s head against the mother’s pelvis cuts off blood supply to delicate tissues in the region. This hole results in permanent incontinence of urine and/or feces.  (C/O The Fistula Foundation)

In the U.S., our obstetric care has advanced to the point where fistula’s aren’t a concern and surgery is immediately available. However in developing countries this isn’t the case. Women faced with this problem are often abandoned by their husbands and ostracized by their communities.

Sarah Scott took a few moments to answer questions about WHEW and their cause:

How did you and Ashley become aware of The Fistula Foundation and what drove you to start WHEW?

Ashley and I both read Nicholas Kristof and Sheryl WuDunn’s book, Half the Sky, and are also fans of Kristof’s NYT Op-Ed column. Another great read on the topic of women’s health, and specifically fistulas, is Cutting for Stone.  While we were working together at an educational policy organization in DC, we became friends and realized that we were both passionate about women’s health and empowerment around the world, and had both been very moved by Kristof’s writings/stories (especially after both traveling in Africa and falling in love with it!) So, we decided to do something about it! While I was living in Bolivia, (June- December 2010) we agreed that fistulas were a specifically terrible and understated medical condition affecting mothers around the world. We contacted The Fistula Foundation (located in San Jose, CA), and they warmly welcomed us as a new Circle of Friends chapter, a fundraising and awareness raising group.

Can you give us a comparison, what are the risks for women in developing countries v.s. the U.S.?

Think about your daily life as a woman in the US.  If you are lucky, from the moment you wake up, you are surrounded by choices: what to wear, what to eat for breakfast, how to get to work, (what you want to do with your career, education,) who you have lunch with, if you go out or to the gym after work. Now, imagine you are a poor, 20 year old girl living in the Congo with 4 children and a husband who works all day. You had to leave school in 3rd grade to help your mother around the house. You wake up every morning and have no choice.  You must take care of your children and provide the best life possible for them. Or imagine that you are a teenage girl living in Afghanistan and you have been betrothed to a man whom you have never met, and as soon as you get your period, you are forced to leave your beloved family for a life unknown. Basically, I think that it comes down to options and education. Options with your body, your life, your education. Without having a say in these issues, you are left very vulnerable.

You held your first fundraiser on August 12th, when will your next event be?

Since I returned to DC in February, we have had two wine and cheese parties where we showed friends a documentary from Despair to Dignity, a moving and educational documentary produced by The Fistula Foundation (another amazing documentary on fistulas is A Walk to Beautiful). We’ve also had one very successful fundraiser happy hour event where we raised over $1000 that went directly to The Fistula Foundation. We are planning our next event, a dinner/fundraiser for the end of October, and this potluck dinner group will meet every month, and then we are planning to have another happy hour fundraiser in November/early December in DC.

 

How can people interested in donating and/or getting involved with your foundation in a larger capacity do so?

The Fistula Foundation’s website has great ways to get involved, check it out! We would love for you to follow the WHEW blog (
http://wheworldwide.tumblr.com/
) , and like us on Facebook, where we post recent news stories on maternal health, events and articles. A great way to start becoming involved in women’s health and empowerment is to read, read, read and start conversations with friends and co-workers, raise awareness, and if you can, money too to support the doctors and hospitals working to repair fistulas.

If you had one piece of advice for young women (or anyone) interested in forming a non-profit, what would it be?

Give it a try! Nothing bad can come out of giving something like this a chance. Educate yourself on the issue, become an expert on what you are passionate about (I’m working on it!) and reach out to your community. I need to be better about it, but take chances! Reach out to professionals in your field to ask for advice and connections. Every bit can help, don’t think that you can’t make a difference, because each of us can.

What are you thankful for?

I am thankful for my AWESOME supportive friends and family, and to be living a life full of options. Choices are the key to a successful, healthy and healthy life especially as a young woman. Think about all of the choices you make every day; what to wear, how to get to work, what to eat, who to meet up with for happy hour, when to go to bed, who to spend your time with and who you love. This isn’t the case in some countries, especially if you are a woman. In some countries, women have no options, they are told at a young age who they will marry, when they will drop out of school (if they get the chance to attend), what to wear, who to speak to, how many children to have; a large part of their life is dictated by others. Be grateful for your daily life, for the little things, and for the people who help make that possible, your parents, your siblings, your co workers and loved ones.

I have some really amazing friends doing amazing things! Thank you, Sarah and the rest of WHEW for sharing! Maybe this has inspired you to donate, maybe this has inspired to to create your own non-profit, but I hope in the least it’s inspired you to pass this knowledge around and make an effort to understand issues outside of your daily life. It certainly has for me.

~Thankful

What Are You Thankful For?

In Uncategorized on September 22, 2011 at 10:07 am

Now for my favorite part, contributions! At the end of next week I will be posting emails some of you have sent in answer to the question, ”What are you thankful for?” I would still love to hear more! So if you have anything you’d like to share send it over to thankfulforamillion@gmail.com.

Thanks for all the views!

~Thankful

Who Cares? Who Cares!

In Uncategorized on September 21, 2011 at 12:04 pm

Whose House? Hawks House!

That brilliant  girl is my niece. No, not the one in the T- Shirt, the one in the Hawk costume. Thanks to Facebook, I found out she’s the mascot at my Alma Mater (her soon to be Alma Mater). As soon as I saw this picture, I thought… “How cool!? That’s awesome that Nya’s doing that, but I couldn’t have been our school’s mascot, people would have thought I was crazy.”

My thought immediately following that first thought was… “What in the world?! That doesn’t even make sense.”

This got me to thinking, how many times have I chosen not do something because of what I thought other people would think? For that reason I’ve compiled a list of things that I thought twice about doing, why I thought twice about doing them and what the potential positive outcome would have been had I followed through and said, Who Cares!

WHAT IF I … NO WAY PEOPLE WILL THINK … BUT IF I HAD…
Wear my favorite pair of Lime Green Sparkly Jeans to HS I’m Crazy Oh wait… I did that
Ask my crush to homecoming I’m Desperate We could be married with 5 kids… Ok  not really, but maybe I would have had a lot of fun?
Go to that birthday party alone I’m Weird I could have made a new friend or caught up with an old one
Buy those UGG slippers with the fur inside I Have bad taste I would have had one less blister from the high heels I bought instead
Make that phone call after I already emailed I’m pushy I would have gotten my information 24 hours earlier. I finally did call the next day.
Write this Post  I’m silly One person might decide “I’m silly for letting people effect my decisions.” 

The people closest to me will notice that most of these things don’t matter to me anymore. But whenever I catch myself making decisions unnecessarily more complicated than they need to be by factoring in others’ opinions, I take a step back and start over. I’m sure there are incidences that I could add to this list. Hopefully you don’t have any- or if you do you’ll able to catch yourself before you care too much.

What have you thought twice about doing?

~Thankful

Oh, What a Difference a Minute Makes!

In Uncategorized on September 20, 2011 at 4:32 pm

Lately, I’ve realized that many of us have time that goes unused. I don’t mean to be unfair. I should note, I don’t think that YOU have time that’s being wasted. Only you can know that for sure. I definitely see areas in my life where I can better manage my time, and I’ve talked to friends who share similar sentiments. For instance, that summer between my Freshman and Sophmore year of college when I thought, after I’m done with track this summer I will go home and relax. I did relax. I’d wake up around 10am (ahem, maybe 11?), not workout (this was a break, duh!), make some lunch, go over my friend Cj’s house and hang out. The times certainly do change! Last Friday I decided to wake up early and do a little writing. I got up at 6 and by 10am I’d done a lot of writing. Hmm… I wonder what I could have done with those extra hours back in the day. I do my best not to live in the past, but sometimes I look back to see what I could have done better. The hope is, I’ll identify that action and implement it in the future- at least until I decide that action, too, was wrong. I’d like to think I’m always evolving for the better.  I can only hope.

Since I’m currently embarking on a journey to achieve my own career goals, I’m awe struck by the amount of time I actually have in the day, and constantly trying to figure out how to use it better. I’m also extremely interested in how those further along in their careers are fairing. Even if they aren’t in the same industry, I like to hear how they got started, what decisions they’re making now, how they’re adapting to the always changing economy, how they continue to sharpen their skill set and nurture the passion they have for their business?

A friend of mine posted an interesting article by Huffington Post contributor, Porter Gale. The former VP of Marketing for Virgin America resigned to pursue other career goals. It looks as though she will be doing a series of posts on entrepreneurship and career changes. It could be interesting! Read her first post HERE and follow if you’d like.

It’s always nice when people are willing to share their experiences with you!

~Thankful

A Little (CAL) Inspiration for the Day!

In Uncategorized on September 15, 2011 at 5:30 pm

I find it completely amazing when people take chances. So, when I saw this Facebook status I was inspired!

Other people must have been inspired too-- 81 likes!

Charlie, a UC Berkeley Alum, started his business making gourmet brownies at a young age. These brownies found their way into coffee shops on Berkeley’s campus. He even founded the UCB Baking Club so that others could pursue their love.  As you can tell by his status, he’s recently decided to make his company his full-time gig. Charlie’s Brownies are delicious! So if you would like to order for a company party, or birthday party, or just for yourself -so you can eat while watching re-runs of Gilmore Girls (that’s me) go HERE.

Thank you for the inspiration, Charlie! Good Luck!

That which we persist in doing becomes easier for us to do; not that the nature of the thing itself is changed, but that our power to do is increased.
~ Ralph Waldo Emerson

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